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Turning point..!!

My life has always been a dilemma between what I need and what I want..and realizing this concept was the turning point. I never wanted to become an Engineer for sure. A few years back, after completing my 12th there was this one question constantly hitting me, "What are you going to do with your life?" And when I tried to actually find answers for that I was left clueless! So I shared it with my friends and they didn't take me seriously..!

One evening over dinner, As my brother just returned from his office, I told him everything going on in my mind and he kept his calm while listening to me...I gave so many options to him...I told him I want to go in the Forensic field, I want to be an interior designer. Lastly, when I stopped I told him I want to be a dancer..that's it that's the thing I want to do..it's my passion...I wanna follow my dream and blah blah blah just like one confused teenager girl I went on..He was still listening to my mess very seriously...

After I finished...He said, "Calm Down..and he clearly denied my all ideas". Hearing his words, I felt disappointed that my own brother doesn't believe in me...he thinks I am useless and all.
Later he told me to think about it and said we will talk about it tomorrow..!

Again the whole day starts. Meanwhile, I had a talk with few friends and they suggested me to do Engineering and I had no clue about that field...Still, I was so happy with the fact that I discovered a new field for myself which I can explain to my brother and he would agree on it and somehow is going to suit my personality as well...As the evening arrives he returned back, he was not in good mood still after finishing his daily routine..we settled down in our living room and he asked me, "What's your decision?" I immediately told him, "How about engineering?" After few seconds of silence, he told me "Fine! you can". Those were the words I needed to hear and that was the turning point..!!

So in my case, this happened by chance but now when I think about it I am proud of that decision... this might not be a relatable post but surely an interesting one..!!

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  1. Unknown11 August 2017 at 04:21

    Engineering really??? I don't think so.....
    Something big is waiting for you...But you need to recognize that turning point...Just go n grab that opportunity...BEST LUCK😉😉

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    1. Unknown11 August 2017 at 04:45

      Hehehe..for that time it was...let's see what future brings to me..!!
      Fingers crossed..🤞
      Anyways Thank you😊

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  3. Unknown30 September 2017 at 13:32

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  4. Unknown30 September 2017 at 13:35

    You have your pen and your thoughts... That's enough!... Use them.. Engineering is a mask on your hobby!... It's superficial while the writings are real... Keep writing and keep your work up!

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    1. Unknown1 October 2017 at 02:02

      Yeah that's true Pen is powerful than sword😉
      Thank you for the feedback Himanshu😊

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